Ways To Know You Are Dating A Wife Material And Not A SLAY QUEEN –STOP BEING FOOLED

Ways To Know If You Are Dating A Wife Material – “Forever till death do us part” is a long time to spend with anybody and that is why the choice of picking a partner to spend forever with is one of the most important decisions we will ever make in our life.
The parameter for choosing a wife goes beyond looks as character is the most important quality and that is why you might want to check if your girlfriend has these ten qualities listed below before you make her a wife.

She is Economical:

One of the biggest signs to watch out for in trying to determine whether your girl is wife material is how well she handles money. The wife material is a saver and does not need to go on endless shopping sprees to feel good. She is the type of woman that can use the little given to her to produce amazing results. She helps you to build up your savings and you always get the best of every penny spent. Moreover if you have a woman that knows how to manage money then you have no need to fear her taking yours.

She Has Goals
There is nothing more perfect than a woman who has goals and ambition. When it comes to achieving things, she is not a doormat or walkover. The wife material knows what she wants to do with life and nothing will stop her from reaching her goals. A woman that has career and life goals is self confident and would have strength of character which is a good thing for any marriage.

She supports your dream
A woman with dreams and ambition is wife material but even more appealing is a woman who supports your own goals and helps you be a better person. When she is your biggest fan and cheerleads you to every victory, know you have found your better half. She will have your back no matter what and allows you to have the time you need to do what you have to do because she knows your dreams are just as important as hers.

She’s a great cook
There is a popular saying that the fastest way to a man’s heart is through is stomach. If she does your cooking for you without complaining then you should know you are dating a well brought up lady. There is nothing more enticing than coming home to a well prepared dish and a lovely woman at the end of the day. She cooks great? Wife her now before someone else finds that treasure.

She’s responsible
Every man’s dream is to find a responsible woman to spend the rest of his lifetime with and the first way to know this is if you have a woman that has a good way of managing her own life. She is independent, doesn’t need to get drunk every weekend before she has fun, you don’t see her at every party and she knows when to spend time alone with you.

Linda Ikeji Births Baby Boy

Linda Ikeji is a mommy!

The blogger turned media mogul has given birth to a baby boy today, Monday September 17. 

The new mother is absolutely ecstatic and overjoyed. She shared her joy on Instagram writing: "Oh dear Lord, I am a mum. Baby J is here! 🙏🙏❤❤. He was born today 17th September. This is so surreal 🙏🙏. Thank you guys so much for the love through this journey and thanks for all the well wishes. Love you guys! 😍😘😘

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Yahoo plus rituals: facts you should know

If you have never heard about the Yahoo plus rituals, we will tell you everything we know about them. Money rituals in Nigeria are a common thing, and the fraudsters often use any means to deceive people for getting money from them. Read everything about the Yahoo business and how the scam works.

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Yahoo plus: what is it?
As the scheme’s name might imply, Yahoo Plus is a special advanced embodiment of Yahoo Yahoo fraud tactic. It is now widely practiced in Nigeria on the victims that are not suspecting anything. It is better to be armed with knowledge than lose your money to the fraudsters.

There are some things that you need to be aware of about the Yahoo plus scheme. First of all, it is quite easy to determine people who are involved in this fraud tactic. Usually, they become rich out of nowhere, lead a luxurious way of life, and there is no indication that they have made this money thanks to some business because they simply are not involved in any business.

The main difference between Yahoo boys and Yahoo plus is that yahoo boys usually work on the romantic aspect of things, they need to convince someone to fall in love with them and then trick them into sending money. With Yahoo plus, it is much more dangerous, because unlike yahoo boy victims who willingly send them money and can prevent themselves from it, the yahoo plus victims are hypnotized into giving someone their belongings.

So, how exactly does Yahoo plus work? Here is all the truth about these money rituals in Nigeria, which are performed on poor victims in order to shake off money and possessions from them.

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Yahoo plus fetishes
Basically, the Yahoo plus scheme includes performing different rituals, which can sometimes reach the ridiculous point: like, for example, sleeping in the cemetery, swimming in the river. These rituals are performed to boost the fraudster’s chances to hypnotize the victims. Once the rituals are done, there is a high chance that the unsuspecting victim will start sending money to the stranger.

According to the reports, some of the Yahoo plus activists have special lucky charms, which they use for hypnotizing their victims. It can be small souvenirs that they can keep to themselves while chatting with someone they could potentially deceive. For example, many swindlers use rings which they can wear on their finger. Usually, these things are received by the fraudsters from the fetish priests. There is a special kind of priests, who usually reside in rural areas. They help out the Yahoo plus fraudsters by giving them the lucky charms, which will increase the chance to hypnotize the victim successfully. A person becomes really trusting and will do whatever a fraudster says.

Sometimes, the spiritualists advise the fraudsters to purchase the special fabrics (namely tie-and-dye ones), which are transformed into clothing and given as gifts to the potential victims. Once someone receives these gifts, they are automatically under a spell and start thoughtlessly sending money to the swindlers. By the way, in the dictionary of fraudsters, they call their victims “maga”.

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The spiritualists can give pretty odd advice to the fraudsters. Sometimes, it includes things like burying live animals every month, mostly cattle. Some terrifying reports even say that the human parts were used for the preparation of hypnotizing mixture. According to the stories from ex-fraudsters, some of them have lost people close to them because of the spiritualists and their directions, which made them quit the business. Another Yahoo plus enthusiast, who was earning a lot of money, started showing signs of mental illness when he stopped performing the rituals. When he got back on it, the problems suddenly went away. While every person can choose whether to believe these reports or not, earning money by dishonest means is never going to bring the person full satisfaction and joy.

Yahoo plus has become a popular way of cybercrime when people stopped trusting the yahoo boys. The cybercrime activists decided to use hypnotizing means to make their victims trust them easier and turned to the fetish spiritualists for help. In Nigeria, this type of fraud is still common, even despite the multiple attempts to end the internet scam once and for all. Usually, students of the universities very quickly get involved in this business, because they want to earn money easily and without effort.

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However, the police are working hard on investigating such situations. Moreover, since the worldwide web became more common, people started gaining basic understanding that they should not trust everything they see on the Internet. As most of the yahoo plus boys are young, parents are strongly advised to be involved in the lives of their children and talk more to them about what they are doing in their free time, developing a trusting relationship with them. Nigerians should stay awake and alert, and try not to get hooked

Guys Never Marry A Lady Above 30, She Is Close To Menopause And Likely To Give Birth To An Imbecile For You

A South African Baker @nandi_cakes, took to his Twitter page, to list reasons why marrying a woman above 30 is a ‘wrong move’.

According to the South African Baker, such women have low fertility and baby with such lady might have downs syndrome. Here’s what he wrote;

Why men shouldn’t marry women over 30 A THREAD

Firstly women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these old donkeys be prepared to possibly have a downs syndrome child. 2. When you marry a 30+ woman, you’re marrying her 30+ pe*nises she’s had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard.

Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage. Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She’s always just angry.

By marrying a woman over 30+ you are investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value… She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems.

Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!. It’s over almost before it began. Its because you are trying to make ancestors housewives. Leave these dinosaurs.

Marrying an over-30 woman is like buying a used car 1Km short of its 120,000km servicing. The over-30 woman can fix herself up enough to fool the prospective provider/hubby for a short while, and once the line that is dotted is signed her true colours come out.

Many women who are not married in their late 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32.

Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 35 with nothing to show for it other than a dead end job, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked out

So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen many women on Twitter in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men & marriage are bad for their academic & career advancement. What feminism does not factor in is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable.

This is a fact of life, don’t come here with your Nywe Nywe Nywe misogyny… VOETSEK

Very few men would marry a 35+ woman when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society. There are plenty of young and hot beautiful women ready to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man provides.

It is good to be ambitious, even better to break the stupid glass ceilings, but at what price? Bottom line, at some point, you will need a man in your life. My experience of having observed women 30+ has proven that they mostly live a life full of regrets.

Let me share with you from my observations the signs that a woman is likely to end up single, and lonely and stay away from these types!! 1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. She’s always throwing statements like “Marriage isn’t an achievement”

2. At age 30+ she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables. 3. She can take down more shots than any of her peers at 30+ who have kids 4. She’s into smoking cigarettes and addicted to weed. 5. Her idea of fun at age 30+ is a night out with the girls.

6. At age 30+ she still insists on only dating men based on what their career is. “He’s a lawyer” “He’s a doctor” “He’s an engineer” 7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her.

8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling. 9. She is so much into fashion, and hair-styling she doesn’t want to be identified as being old in her circles

10. Her job involves a lot of travelling. 11. She can easily find a parking spot at Taboo than her way to church. 12. She believes in absolute equality in marriage without any sacrifice or compromise.

My brother if you find an ancestor over 32+ Love yourself…… run away from these dinosaurs

I dated her for 8 years, never had sex with her, after Her MSc, she dumped me

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Heard this and almost cried my eyes off. Each time I get to hear some ladies say, “men are scum”, I seldom keep quiet because I have loads of stories and experiences which when shared will not only silence them but may change their mentality about the “men are scum phrase.”
So, a friend visited my house days back, whilst gisting, he shared a story about a bosom friend of his, who almost committed suicide over the girl he dated. We will use Mr. I as the boyfriend and Ms. I as the girlfriend. I will try as much as possible to cut the long story short.
According to him, Mr. I had been dating Ms. I since 2008, he was in the university then, 200 level to be precise, whilst she was about finishing secondary school. And like many young lovers, everything was good and going fine except the usual “childish mentality” from both parties of course.
Things kept blossoming, everything soft and nice. She got into the university, a private Nigerian university, fortunately for Mr. I, it wasn’t one of those universities where phones weren’t allowed, so they kept communicating and in fact, since the relationship gradually started maturing, their love kept shinning bright like a diamond.. So bright that other male chyker’s couldn’t approach Ms. I because almost everyone in campus knew she was “bae-gaged.” Yes, she was that proud of her bae then.
Mr. I never missed the opportunity of leaving his university to visit her every weekend, notwithstanding the distance.. Oh, I forgot to tell you, he schooled in far away East, whilst she schooled in the West. And the journey from his university to hers took him 7-8 hours by road and of course, he always used road except extreme cases where he decided to use flight.
Not only did he risk his life plying bad roads every weekend just to see bae, he also made sure he got stuffs for her, food stuffs and sometimes money (He took it upon himself to bring provisions and money two weekends out of four, monthly). Indeed, bae was balling, no wonder she was so bae-gaged!
And whenever they were on break, back to their respective homes (fortunately they both lived in Lagos), he was with her almost every other day. In fact, both parents knew they were dating. Yes, and they both approved of it. Indeed, Mr. I was happy, he had the acceptance of bae’s family members and of course, the heart of bae (So he thought).
A couple of times, when bae resumed a new semester and Mr. I was still home, boss-man will take it upon himself to fuel his car and drive his woman to her uni, not only that, sometimes took provisions to bae’s siblings’ schools too. Mr. I was in love, so he just wanted to make her family members love him more.. Every guy who has truly loved, will know this feeling..
“Mans” was usually broke in school because of bae, you know, bae schooled in a private university and lifestyle was more expensive there. Of course, to please bae and make her family know he was man enough, Mr. I usually soaked garri in his hostel whilst he sent the food stuffs given to him by his parents to his girl.. Love nwantiti right?
Fast forward to his graduation, he got a job which wasn’t well-paying like that, but always made sure 50% of his salary went to bae’s account. Yes a whole 50%.. (It was at this point I literally started tearing up. A tear dropped from my eye and I am certain my friend saw this. If only he knew that I was tearing up because I couldn’t really fathom how mans was so in love that he forgot there is a difference between a girlfriend and a wife). Worst still is, he hadn’t even engaged her yet! Oh my gosh!!!!
Well, love was still there (so he thought). All through the years of dating, spending, killing himself to please she and her family, he never for once had any sexual relation with her. Never for once, because she claimed to be a virgin. The best he ever got was a kiss.. A kiss bruh!
Fast forward to when she graduated from university, Mr. I threw a big party for her. Hosted over 30 people (friends and family). Spent close to N650K on the bash (Unbeknownst to his siblings, he borrowed a huge sum of money from his friends so as to make the party a huge success)… And a huge one it was (At this point I started thinking, If only he had engaged her at the bash he threw for her, maybe things would have turned out differently)… Well, who knows, right?
Months after she graduated, he lost favour from his employers, so he was sacked. Things dwindled from his end so his usual 50% to his bae, stopped. 3 months after he lost his job, bae informed him she was going to study abroad, going for her masters’ program in Russia. (Funny thing is, she never told him when she even applied nor got accepted). Well, she apologised, he forgave and they were still chilling.
Weeks later, it was time for her to travel, he dropped her off at the airport, they did the usual (kissed and bid themselves goodbyes right in front of her fam.. Yes, they were that close you know!).
Chatting, skyping, doing all sort of things, all these lasted for 3 to 4 months of her stay in Russia. Things became bad afterwards, communication not only dwindled but it dissolved, “mans” was no longer getting attention, “mans” was confused yet still going to bae’s house to help out in one or two errands for fam.
To cut the long story short….. Few weeks before she was done with her programme, she sent a text, which read, “We can’t be together anymore, I am sorry.” …. That was all, 8 years and that’s all she sent. No explanation as to why she wanted to call quits. (Cold right?)
Mr. I lost it at this point, became severely depressed, in fact, he was almost going insane. He had to be on drugs. Severally tried suicide but luckily for him, his younger brother came to the rescue. He was eventually admitted in Lagoon for 5 weeks.
This was the period bae came back. Bad thing is, she didn’t even bother informing him she was coming back and worst thing is, when she eventually heard he was hospitalised, she didn’t step her foot in Lagoon hospital.. A cruel world right?
Right as we speak, Mr. I has been in and out of hospital, going through one or two crisis. He has lost touch of reality and become a shadow of himself, whereas Ms. I hasn’t bothered seeing him since she came back to Nigeria and in fact, is about to be wed in April 2018.
Love is a beautiful thing only and when it is true and mutual so children of the world, love with your heart, but use your brain!
PS: This is a true life story from a friend to be shared on TheInfo.NG.
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Daniel O.
6 COMMENTS
favour Godwin
January 14, 2018 at 12:16 am
Is a pity, he should just cheer up and put himself together, life goes, God will surely pay her back.
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Lil Adonis January 14, 2018 at 4:39 pm
Take heart Mr…chill…karma z going to visit her…dtx life..u never can tell…her husband fit run leave her 4 alter
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Chinenye Assumpta Nnakenyi
January 14, 2018 at 5:15 pm
So outrageous….
She is a fool who doesn’t deserve a kind hearted person like Mr. I
@Mr. I
First of all thank God for removing a destroyer from your life.
This is an opportunity for you to move with your life. She was never in God’s plan for you. You don’t need her. She never contributed to you and so will never.
Listen! you need to WISE UP. True love is a 2way relationship, not only to be shown by one individual, but by both individuals.
You are full of potentials, dust up yourself and DELETE her completely…. leaving no trace of her… The moment you do this, you will see drastic turn around in your life. For as long as you have being faithful, then God’s plan for you is of good.
More importantly, be WISE, seek for wisdom. Enough of your childishness. With your loving, caring, kind hearted heart plus WISDOM, will get you the woman of your dreams.
You will definitely find a loving woman that care about you and contribute to your life as much as you contribute to her life.
Begin now, start taking actions…….
You are blessed by God.
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Barly January 14, 2018 at 7:43 pm
Can I have mr I number I can personal help him out…
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Godwin okon
January 15, 2018 at 2:54 am
Thank God for the kind of boy I am and the MAN I would become
I don’t give in too much because I believe people can fail you
Even your own parents…
Am sorry for the Guy
God will fight for him
If he has Jesus in his life
Holy spirit would have given him direction…

Many Nigerian Female Students Are Walking Dead, Because They Have Been Used For Yahoo Plus

I came across an old friend of mine, mehn you needed to see his car, modern benz flashy rims and see his dressing we got to talk and I asked him the way forward, he said he did gee (Yahoo) and I was like how did you get this far?

He replied ” i plus up nw” asin (yahoo plus+) and I went forward to ask what he did, he didn’t even hide it maybe bcz he trusted me this was what he told me.

“My guy as I start this gee tin e no pay me imagine clients go dey give me $200 why nw na em i go one baba like that, the man assure me say I go hit jack pot na just to do some rituals.

At first I shake but after I go meet the man him give me hanky say if I sleep with any girl of my choice make I make sure say she sleep after sex then use the hanky clean the pussy then bring am for am.

My guy after i do am i go give the man like after 2 months everything begin click for me o sometimes e dey hard bcz you go do some girls the baba go say dem don use dem”.

Jesus, I was shocked I couldn’t believe my ears he went on to say most Nigerian university female students are walking dead and empty vessels and he said he has been doing this for like 9 months.

Just imagine the amount of innocent girls that are useless just bcz of material tinz. I am sorry to say but most of you girls are in big soup you need